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by Heather Vogel, MA, SPHR – The HR Whisperer

 

You know, as the HR Whisperer, I’m really enamored with the whole idea of creating top performing organizations through positive behavior change. One of my favorite mentors, Cesar Millan, says, “A dog that doesn’t trust its human to be a good pack leader becomes unbalanced and often exhibits unwanted or antisocial behaviors.” It struck me that the same is true for people in organizations. We need to have strong leadership because in many cases our very business survival depends on a stable, organized and motivated team. Business survival instinct is perhaps one of our greatest natural motivators in the workplace and if a person is not guided well, it can not only result in unwanted behavior but total chaos in the long run.

 

So, I’m digging this concept and working it through in my brain as to how this relates to human capital and wouldn’t you know, I web-stumbled across an article recently published by Harvard Business Review (September 2008). Written by Daniel Goleman and Richard Boyatzis, “Social Intelligence and the Biology of Leadership” discusses new studies of the brain that show that business leaders can improve team performance by understanding not the psychology, but the biology of social intelligence. How cool. It struck me that scientists have discovered a biological underpinning to what makes a good leader great, which could toss more fuel on the fire in the “leaders are born, not made” camp. (Which I don’t subscribe to, by the way. I believe that anyone, given time and effort can change their behavior – even interpersonally. That’s why I’m in the business I’m in. Oh, I feel another blog topic coming on! <huge grin>)

 

More on the biology of leadership from Harvard Business Review:

 

“The salient discovery is that certain things leaders do—specifically, exhibit empathy and become attuned to others’ moods—literally affect both their own brain chemistry and that of their followers. Indeed, researchers have found that the leader-follower dynamic is not a case of two (or more) independent brains reacting consciously or unconsciously to each other. Rather, the individual minds become, in a sense, fused into a single system. We believe that great leaders are those whose behavior powerfully leverages the system of brain interconnectedness…If we are correct, it follows that a potent way of becoming a better leader is to find authentic contexts in which to learn the kinds of social behavior that reinforce the brain’s social circuitry. Leading effectively is, in other words, less about mastering situations—or even mastering social skill sets—than about developing a genuine interest in and talent for fostering positive feelings in the people whose cooperation and support you need.”

 

Wow. The idea that leaders need good interpersonal as well as functional skills has certainly been around for quite some time. As a matter of fact, Goleman coined the phrase, “social intelligence” to discuss this very thing. But what he and Boyatzis are talking about here is different – they’re saying that we have these things in our brains called mirror neurons that mimic what another person does. As social beings, when we “consciously or unconsciously detect someone else’s emotions through their actions, our brain’s mirror neurons reproduce those emotions and allow us to instantly share that experience.” Ever notice when two people are deep in discussion they tend to hold their arms the same way or cross their legs at the same time? That’s the mirror neurons in action. 

 

So, how can leaders take advantage of this brain interconnectedness? If it stands to reason that followers will create a social connection with their leader, it also stands to reason that they will emotionally feel whatever it is the leader is feeling and behave accordingly. If leaders are emotionless, don’t smile or otherwise engage their followers, they will not take activate the mirror neutrons in a positive way, leading to distressed and nonperforming followers, and thus the potential for business chaos. Body language plays a great part also. If a leader’s body language doesn’t jibe with what is being said, the follower will go with the body language. Bodies don’t tell lies, mouths do.

 

The bottom line is that when people feel good about what they are doing, when they have a social connection with their leaders, when they feel part of something that is bigger than them, those mirror neurons come in handy. Reinforce the brain’s social circuitry — if you want to motivate those around you, create a positive atmosphere. If you want higher performance or enhanced creativity, be in a good mood and show you care. If you truly want the best from your followers, kick those mirror neutrons into high gear and create an environment where sincere respect, fun, laughter and performance are a serious part of your business operations. Trust me, you won’t be sorry!

 

Heather is president of Vogel & Vogel, Inc. (VVI), an HR/OD firm located in Bradenton, Florida.  She is also The HR Whisperer, an HR blogger.  An award-winning trainer and motivator, Heather is passionate about “nurturing potential” by rehabilitating organizations and developing people. She has 20+ years experience maximizing performance with programs that increase organizational ROI.
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Let It Go

by Stephen Geraghty-Harrison – Chapter President

 

Have you ever worked on a project for so long that it begins to feel like your baby?  Maybe you’ve had certain responsibilities that you’ve focused on and now your role has changed in your organization and they aren’t your responsibility anymore?  It’s tough isn’t it?  For the sake of the rest of us, please let it go!

 

I take my work, whether professional or volunteer, seriously.  I pour everything into making what I’m working on the best it can be.  I am passionate about business and human resources and it shows in the work I do.  I would love it if everything went “my way” but I realize that my way may not always be the best way for the organization.  Managers everywhere need to remember that!

 

I’ve learned that just because a manager or employee may do something in a way that I wouldn’t doesn’t necessarily make it the wrong way.  As a manager I’ve had to learn how to encourage others to share their ideas and make them feel appreciated.  Don’t be that stubborn manager who goes on a tirade every time something is done differently than you would have done.  All this will accomplish is to discourage creativity and employee involvement – you won’t gain respect this way.

 

Chill out.  If it doesn’t fall under the reigns of your job duty any more let it go!  If you have done your job correctly individuals will feel comfortable stepping up to the plate and taking lead on projects, even something that you may have led.  Watch patiently and provide mentoring when necessary – encourage change, be a good manager. 

 

The last thing we all need is another tyrant in the office!

 

Have you had to deal with an office tyrant who wont “let it go?” If so how did you handle it?  Have you ever had a problem letting something go that has been your responsibility?  What got you through it? Please share!

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Group Dynamic = Chaos

by Joyce Chastain, SPHR – Strategic HR Expert

 

Recently I attended an early evening meeting after already completing a ten-hour workday.  It may be important to know that I might not have been at my (most patient) best.

 

The meeting started calmly enough, but I was amazed by how many late arrivers disrupted the proceedings by making loud, raucous entrances.  It was like they wanted everyone to know they had arrived and it was irrelevant that they were late.  Clearly, they were under the impression that they were more important than the agenda.  After all, weren’t we all so glad to see them?  Hugs all around.

 

So, that was the first time I used my “church glare.”  That’s the look my mother used to give me when I would laugh or talk with my friends during church services.  Her eyes would narrow and she would make direct soul-to-soul non-verbal contact revealing her irritation at my irreverence. 

 

Order restored.  Now, back to our meeting.  One of the attendees didn’t agree with the direction of the discussion regarding the second topic on the agenda and began a loud sidebar with his neighbor.  Church glare number 2.

 

As the debate continued, the chair requested clarification from the attorney.  Another attendee, who was less than pleased with the attorney’s guidance, then began to argue historical events.  You know the phrase, “we’ve never done it like that before.”  And, he did that without being recognized by the chair.  Church glare number 3 followed by a loud sigh.

 

At some point, total chaos broke out.  Multiple people were shouting over the person who rightfully had the floor who began to speak louder to be heard over the cacophony of interruptions.  I glanced over at the exasperated secretary who was unsuccessfully attempting to record the proceedings.  My church glare was in overdrive, but I saved the meanest, sternest glare of all for the chair of the proceedings.  Finally, he banged the table and restored order.  Whew.  Relish the calm…

 

In an appropriately dignified manner, discussion continued.  Then, from the far corner of our elongated boat-shaped conference table came an unrelated, one-person dialogue.  As I realized the individual was actually having a personal cell phone conversation, my glare went into retirement and from my lips exploded, “Are you freakin’ kidding me?”  I really did say, “freakin’.”

 

What was wrong with these people?  Where was the respect for the other people who were sacrificing their time to contribute to this group?  Oh, I get that they’re passionate about the topics.  Of course they are.  We wouldn’t want ill-informed, apathetic individuals in the group.  But, can we please have a little decorum?

 

I left that meeting exhausted and mulled over the proceedings on the drive home.  I reached two distinct conclusions: the meeting chair’s duty is to maintain order and my church glare doesn’t pack the same wallop as my mother’s.

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